therapy for bpd, does anyone else get attached to their therapist

i know this is a bpd thing but my therapist has become like the most important person in my life and i think about her constantly between sessions i'm planning what i'll talk about, after sessions i replay everything she said, i check her social media even though i know i shouldn't she's professional and boundaried which makes it worse because i want more from the relationship than she can give i know it's transference and we talk about it in therapy but knowing doesn't make it go away anyone else deal with this? how do you manage it? feel pathetic admitting this but pretty sure it's common with bpd