35 [M4F] - Older women: are you looking for a boy toy plaything?

Hi all! I'm hoping to find something a little specific, but incredibly hot - I'd love to be a plaything, showoff, and toy for a woman older than me, or potentially around my age. I'd really like this to focus on a command, control, and instructional feel - as if you are getting a private show from a toy you get to control fully. That could be a wide variety - making me show how I touch myself, controlling how I do it, having me watch you, humiliation, body writing, orgasm denial, some bondage or pain play, possibly anal play - I'm quite kink friendly, and I'm sure we can find a fun space to play within so we're both satisfied. Ultimately, I'd like to feel like you are training me to be the perfect specimen for you to get off to.

Since I'm a new to this type of dynamic, for now I'd like to keep it to watching, verbal control, some touching, and potentially oral (giving or receiving). No penetrative sex at this point, but if we click I'm open to going there in the future.

A little about me: I'm tallish, slim/fit, smooth, hung, ddf (with proof, as you should have too). I am happy to present as traditionally masc, or I have a lean towards a more femme side as well if that's your thing.

Hope we can find a way to make this work, I'm really excited about the idea!