My (18f) boyfriend (18m) got a lap dance at a strip club

TLDR: bf went on boys trip and got a lap dance at the strip club

So for spring break my boyfriend and a few of his friends went on a trip from Thursday to Sunday, today is Tuesday and he called to tell me something that happened on the first night.

He told me he was really wasted as were his friends and they were at a club and lost one of their friends. The lost friend found a strip club on another floor of the club and so they went, and two of the strippers approached my boyfriend and one of his friends offering a dance and flirting with them. His friends egged him on and said they’d pay for him to get and and so he did. He said the next morning when he woke up sober he talked to his friends and set the boundary that he wasn’t okay with doing that and all of that stuff. I’ve known him (romantically) for almost a year and we’ve been together officially for 3 months. I really don’t know how to feel and if it’s enough to leave over.

Posted Apr 1, 2026, 5:51 AM UTC · locked

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