Where to begin with crafting as a new player

Hi, I’m coming from OSRS as an Ironman, so I liked the idea of finding all my own gear so started a SSF character.

I’m find the crafting of the game quite overwhelming and not sure where you even begin to learn how to craft.

Is there any kind of tool where to can paste an item into it and it will give you the steps on how to craft it?

For example, I’m playing Kinetic Fusillade totems and just completed the second void stone. I’m at the point where I want to create a better wand.

I’ve been collecting ilvl 83+ kinetic wand bases but I have no idea if the ilvl matters when using essences on them. I’m using one that got a decent lightning damage and fire damage roll then crafted crit chance on it.

I was reading about the recombinator, but it seems confusing as fuck. I assume I want to do something with it to combine wands but I’ve used the essences on to create a decent wand.

Any advice with crafting in general would be greatly appreciated.