[M4F] Theory: thicker women have filthier minds

I had started to write: I say this as somebody who's more attracted to women who are chubby, thick, plus-size, fat, zaftig—pick your adjective—just generally, physically, to begin with. But I wonder, is that right? Does the sense I have that thicker-than-average women tend to have dirtier-than-average minds come from being drawn to those women and getting to know enough of them over the years to be able to make a generalization? Or is it that, more than anything else, I'm drawn to perversion, and bigger women are, it turns out, bigger pervs than their skinny counterparts, and the preference followed? Difficult to say. Probably a bit of column A, bit of B.

Anyway: I do think it's true. And it's not that they're more perverted. Their perversions are, I've found, deeper, more interesting. How to account for it? One idea: cultural messaging about body stuff is so intense and pervasive, and the echo chamber of early peer pressure is so confining, young men get the idea they should exclusively be attracted to skinny girls, regardless of how they really feel, so young women have an especially hard time getting dates early on. Maybe this makes for a kind of incubation period: instead of coming of age sexually getting fumbled unimaginatively over in back seats and frat houses, they have to use their imaginations, whether in the privacy of their fantasies or online, writing stories or playing sticky-fingered pretend with strangers who know how to use their words. They get to know what they really like, delve deeper into possibilities, think of things that would never occur to someone who gets swept up into following the normal scripts right away. Another idea: coming of age any which way at size more-than-zero in a world that's as fatphobic as ours requires a kind of self-assurance and an amount of figuring things out that translates, where sex is concerned, to wanting to have what you really want and taking the time and making the effort to work out what that really is.

I don't know. I could be wrong, about any of this, or all of it. This could all be a pretext to get cool babes with thick thighs and filthy minds to message me. (And would that be so wrong?) But I think I'm on to something here. In any case, if you're still reading, chances are I'd love to hear from you.