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I (22M) have 3 brothers. We’re all currently out of town staying in a hotel room for some family business.

One of my brothers (19M) has always had a serious issue. He refuses to do #2 in the hotel room. He’ll wait till we all leave, or he’ll just hold it until we’re back home. There’s been an instance where he’s held it in for 4 days one time because he was so ashamed to use the bathroom and ended up getting sick from it. My brothers and I have told him he’s too old to be acting like this, but he won’t budge on it at all.

Well recently he’s been looking sick, uncomfortable, and like he’s in pain. He was lying down in the bed looking unwell. I told him go to the bathroom and take a shit before he gets sick again. I told him we’re all brothers and there’s nothing to be ashamed of with a normal bodily function. He told me to stfu. I told him he’s too old to be acting like this. I told him he’s being silly and he needs to stop it. We got into a whole argument. My brother told me I’m an AH for embarrassing him and coming after him for something he’s not comfortable doing.

AITA