Trimmed vagina lips?

Is a shaved vagina still expected? The entire area is very sensitive for me and I’m not a fan huge fan of a shaved vag anymore. I know some women keep the hair on top trimmed and shave the lips but the the lips is the most sensitive area for me 😓 And it seems like the only “acceptable” way to keep trim it. Is keeping the lips trimmed for oral okay? I’m not against waxing it but still definitely prefer trimming the most.