Some things to note. If you read all of this, damn good job!

Disclaimer/Notes:

- 18+ only. IDGAF if you are going to be 18 in an hour, get the fuck away and come back after an hour.

- We all have fucked up brains. No one in this world is really normal. Having fetishes basically means that your brain works differently and enjoys things that others might find taboo. Do not kink shame anyone for having kinks of any sort. I know a lot of people are into a lot of different things... extreme or vanilla it doesn't matter. I DO NOT JUDGE.

- I recommend you all to not feel bad about being kinky. People weren't necessarily born kinky. Past trauma and exposure to things early on or sometime in life, or even over time led our brain development into accepting and enjoying kinks. There's absolutely NOTHING wrong with having kinks/fetishes/ dark thoughts. I, myself, have some crazy and extreme kinks. In reality, some are impossible and I would under no circumstance actually do them, not even if someone gave me consent to do them. (example: guro / snuff -

Like bruh, thanks for consenting to something extreme like choking you till your light goes off forever, it sure sounds hot, but I ain't going to do that in reality. Not even if someone pays me to do it. Hard Pass.)

- Establishing trust is hard and can take really long time. This is obvious with people online. We all have had traumas where we have been taken advantage of or been blackmailed, where our trust in others have been broken. I have a policy of starting with a level of trust (say 5/10 with 1 being not trustworthy and 10 being completely trustworthy and being my best friend). Your actions and decisions impact that level... meaning that 5/10 can either go up or down. When we establish trust, we both put a lot of effort in it, so even if we end up parting away in a dynamic, if we still trust each other, I recommend staying as friends. Some of my most trusted friends are my ex-subs.

- I do not show my face... at least not till I trust you enough and we know each other for over 2-3 months. It is up to you whether you want to share your face pic or not, I am not going to force you (unless its a consented blackmail kink thing). I have been blackmailed in the past to be a dom to subs that I did not want to dom. I don't intend on having repeats of that.

- DDLG/Age regressors - please let me know in advance that you age regress and to approx what years so no one gets surprised. In addition, when you age regress let me know what you want: just vanilla care, non kink OR kink.

- Certain fetishes are only for imagination, they are unrealistic in real life aka... they are just FANTASIES (i.e. Guro). You can get close to having something guro-ish (either with knife play or something along the lines of Torture Galaxy (TG) )... but as long as it is consented, as long as you enjoy it, and as long as it stays within the limits of society and law, I do not mind it.

- If I make a post that's my own work with someone or whatever, I will mark the post OC (that's obvious)

- Safety and your health is my top priority. I don't fuck around when it comes to practicing kink or something kinky safely. I prefer practicing kink safely and, obviously, with consent. I do not save any pics, and I do not post pics without consent. (If you have a blackmail kink, you have to give me consent to blackmail).

- Kink talk is absolutely just kink talk and can seem unethical / immoral out of context. Keep kink and non-kink reality separate. Certain kinks can seem borderline abuse, it is important to know consent, safe words, limits, and after care SEPARATES kink from abuse. If you have no limits or if you don't want safe words, great. That is fine by me... but I still will keep your safety in mind and stop you from doing stupid shit that could lead to severe injury.

- I encourage using safe words. Safe words help establish trust, better communication, and helps the sub stay safe when doing kink. This especially applies for kinks like pain kink.

- Communicate... like for real communicate. I know subs feel bad or are shy to open up and communicate or fear they might upset the dom. FUCK THAT!!! If you don't communicate, you (and potentially the dom) might end up hurt emotionally and/or physically OR worse, you might end up getting taken advantage of.

- I DO NOT like ghosting anyone or abandoning anyone. I know how painful that can feel. I will never ghost or abandon anyone in reality. (Unless you are masochist and pain punishments don't really help, then I would do a time out where I won't talk for x amount of time.

- If you are a sub who ghosts me, do not expect a second chance unless you had a valid reason to do so. If we parted mutually or you left because you didn't want to be in a dynamic with me or whatever the reason is, and then you change your mind and come back, I am more than happy to give you a second chance, but I am not interested in being used or abused by people who I give care to and for.