47M49F looking to make friends with a couple. *No single men*

Trying this again, not many grasp we are not going to share pics in the first messages or jump into the sack. We are seeking friends we can hang out with regularly in life, sex is a bonus.

We are average body type, usually people think we are not fit enough, so if you want fit, it isn't us, it was 15 years ago.
We hope to find low pressure, make friends get to know each other and go from there. We hope to find people who are not too pushy and put friendship first.
Hoping for same room full swap once we get there, he has a vasectomy, would love to find someone who is the same, clean DDF.