Those of you who are sexually active, do you find sex difficult?

I remember that I was eager to have sex for the first time to feel what it was like.

I enjoyed my first time and don't regret losing my virginity when I did, but at the same time I don't think I was the best partner. Sensory overload was definitely an issue and I found certain things that I think most people enjoy to be somewhat difficult, not because I didn't like it, but because there was too much stimulation all at once.

I remember my ex-girlfriend was very insecure, and if I didn't seem like I was enjoying it, she immediately assumed that it meant that I didn't want to be with her, or that I was turned off by her, when really it was because I was new at it and was still figuring out what felt good for me and what didn't (I was a virgin before I met her while she had been with other people).