Bare minimum marriage

If we want to fix the divorce epidemic we need to address how some people take advantage of traditional marriage. I’ve noticed in religious communities that some people think they can get away with being as selfish and lazy just as long as they don’t do anything to warrant a Biblically valid divorce. For example, husbands who refuse to help at home or wives who do things behind their husbands back. It’s like a weird hostage situation in these cases.