I hate him

Today after work, I told my pa husband that I don’t like that when he gets in one of his moods, everything he’s previously said he would or wouldn’t do, gets completely disregarded. I also told him it makes me very upset that I NEVER choose to do something that I know makes him feel negatively, but he does, even small stupid things. He said he doesn’t care, he said he wishes I cared less and did things that he wouldn’t like and blah blah. I’m pissed. I’m not sad, I’m not hurt, I’m fucking mad. He makes me so angry.