31 [M4F] Union County - Looking for fwb, maybe something more if we click

Hey there, I'm a 31 year old male from NJ and I am looking to meet new people, make connections, and maybe even a relationship if we click. While I am looking for something long-term I don't expect to jump into getting to know each other with a relationship in mind, let's just have fun getting to know each other and see what happens! It has been quite an interesting experience being ghosted multiple times for "talking too much" but I wonder how else we're even supposed to get to know each other? I don't get it! 🙃

I don't have a preferred type exactly - I'll consider myself lucky if another nerd is interested enough to reply but I'm open to anyone as long as you think we would vibe well together. While I'm not exactly shy I tend to be a bit reserved in the "getting to know each other phase" and I will start floundering a bit if we can't talk about why Metal Gear Solid 3 is the best game ever made or why Usogui is the most underrated manga ever lol. Or at the very least play/stream games/shows for each other. I especially love watching Japanese Variety television and would love to share that with someone, we need to see what these goofy idols are up to this week.

I don't want to just bulletpoint everything about myself as I find it more fun to learn about each other while talking, but besides the nerdy trio of games/anime/manga I also enjoy going into Manhattan to hangout, cardio, and am learning to read Japanese. I'm 5'9", 145lbs, and work full-time doing security work. My work hours are a little strange but hopefully that's not too big of a hurdle when it comes to getting to know each other.