Why is dating you so hard?

26F here. Please don’t judge me, I am just fed up. I’ve been on the apps multiple times. There are so many creeps, it feels unsafe. And if I try to look beyond that, the men are just so unresponsive. I don’t think I’m painful to look at, in fact I think I’m hot. I am smart, have a banging career, great conservationist. But why do men not take charge or even if I take charge, why do they behave so weird??? As though they’re not on the app to find something too (something meaningful, meaningless, one night stand, wife, whatever) be clear with your intention, don’t waste my time. I haven’t been on a date in 2 years. I want to date seriously. Maybe even to eventually get married (in 5 years?) but WHERE ARE THE HIGH QUALITY MEN??? I am trying to look for you.

PS: found a 22y old cute but hes too young I feel. And idk if he’s interested in me so 🤷‍♀️

Please give me tips or solace.