[29/M] Looking for someone to connect with

Friendship

29, Male, Spain. Gonna try to cut straight to the Chase: I want to meet and connect with someone as soon as possible. Been spending this past years working on myself and got a lot of goals cleared out: Studies, Gym, right now at the moment I got a new job that may help me on the long run, so all that has been covered and managed.

And still I can't meet or connect with anyone, either Online or offline. Sometimes it's because the other person ghosts me or gets bored, sometimes it's because that person already has someone, or Friends, and those people usually are not interested in allowing more people in.

To be clear: I don't search something casual or small chat. I want to meet someone who I can connect with and care, someone who I can talk to and help, who I can be myself, expecting also the same from the other person. Talk, play videogames, watch a movie, even get out if somehow anyone reading this lives in Spain.

I don't know where else to look to, I don't trust app dates much, and real life is like I said, everyone around My Age seems to have their social stuff 100% covered, so it's almost impossible for me to meet someone, let alone ger their attention.

My apologies for the long text.

Posted Apr 1, 2026, 8:23 PM UTC

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