my father.

Okay, this is a bit complicated. I share a room, right? (I have a lot of siblings) and I usually sleep in pajamas, but when they visit my grandmother (in the summer) I usually sleep in underwear (on the bottom. It's nothing like a thong or anything, just normal underwear) and a loose t-shirt over it. What's the problem? The t-shirt comes down to almost my knees, which is fine. But according to my mother, "you're a grown woman," I can't walk around like that if my father is in the room or in the house, since it "makes him uncomfortable" and because I have a body that developed during adolescence. Also, when I'm menstruating and I change my sanitary pad, I wrap it in paper, right? and I throw it in the trash can (the normal thing to do), but according to my mother, "your father is uncomfortable seeing it there," so she makes me go outside and throw it in the trash can that's on the street. I hate that not even the man who changed my diapers and bathed me as a child can see me and feel uncomfortable looking at me, even if my t-shirt reaches my knees. And you can say, "Or maybe it's your body," no. Because my mother lets me wear bra tops with nothing over them, it's like... I don't know why. It disgusts me to think about what's going through his mind.