Incels are getting the wrong advice

Safe to say we know what an incel is and the gender it mostly relates to. for a long time now I've seen many people tell incels that the reason they cannot get laid or relationships is because of their morals and personality, but how exactly do you explain the bigoted men who can't get enough dates, interest or sex from women ? what we should be telling incels is the truth: what matters is their looks, once they become physically attractive they will get female attention, it's literally all.