STBXWife spreading false accusations?

M28, together with my wife F28 for 10 years, married 4.

My wife has been telling all of her friends and family that I was emotionally abusive, controlling and narcissistic.

I can honestly admit that I have said a lot of hurtful things to her in this past year that our relationship has been struggling, but she’s said a lot of hurtful things too. Along with belittling, disrespect, name calling, etc..

I can tell a majority of them are most likely siding with her and they haven’t reached out to me at all.

Has anyone else handled this before? What should I do?