I have a question

so my husband(41m) and I(38f) are following our heats and experimenting. amazing time buttttt we're have a hard time finding the right toy (sort of an all in one) that will fill everyone's holes... that isn't super floppy. we found one we thought was it but it's like trying to stuff a wet noodle up his butt and well.... not at all what we had in mind. so here I am.