Mystery accountability goals

Could someone please explain where I can find which goals I've shared for accountability and with whom? They seem to disappear into the ether.

I've read they're supposed to appear when you click on the relevant friend, but I'm not seeing any.

Could it be because I haven't yet made any progress towards the goals? (That is, despite sharing them weeks ago. It's not a case of "wait until tomorrow", unfortch.)

There's one goal I know I shared with a particular friend, but I see nothing on her 'wall/page/room'(?). There's at least one other goal I've shared, but I can't remember who with or what it even was!!

I'd like to share a new goal with someone - which I believe I'm going to actually do this time - but I don't want to bombard the same person... and I don't know if there's even any point.