35 [M4F] #Online - Become a physically fit, well-trained slut under my guidance

This will be a relatively long ad. Read it carefully from start to finish, so you can evaluate how likely we are to match well with each other.

The dynamic:

What I'm looking for is more than a simple sexual dynamic. I'm looking for a mentee. That means kink exploration, sexual training and also self care. My goal is pushing you as close to your potential as I can. I will teach you how to be a good sub even if you're a complete beginner. I will also make sure you take good care of your body, get fit and stay fit, and put an effort into your appearance. Have you been neglecting any of those? Are you looking for some extra motivation to get back on track? This is your lucky day.

I'm not interested in casual, short-term play because I don't see the point of that. It takes time to get to know each other, to develop trust, and it's impossible to fully give yourself to someone without that. I can't and don't expect you to serve and obey me with full devotion right away, but that is the end goal. Eventually, you will be mine completely.

Daily communication is a must for me. That doesn't mean you're not allowed to be busy, we will both have days when we can't be around that much. We should notify each other when that happens though, and still do our best to communicate even if it's just a quick check in here and there. I want us both to have space though, respect each other's personal and professional life, and avoid becoming too clingy.

I'm not looking for TPE. I want to have some control over you outside of the bedroom as well, but I want to avoid setting countless rules you have to live by, and making every single decision for you. We can gradually build a more controlling, more strict system over time, but only if we are both comfortable with it.

The sexual part is important, so you should have a relatively high sex drive along with a curious and open mind. I won't give you lots of tasks every single day, but I want there to be some play every week. This also means it's necessary for you to have a good amount of privacy. I have a lot of kinks, we will definitely find things we're both interested in, and you can share your fantasies with me without judgement. It doesn't matter to me how "weird" some of your desires are, I'll do my best to make them come true.

You:

What I enjoy the most is the journey of turning you from a shy and innocent woman into a well-trained slut for me. I like age gaps. Age is rarely a deal breaker for me, but I especially encourage you to reach out if you are 10+ years younger than me. I'm beginner-friendly with a lot of patience, so if you've never reached out to anyone and you're worried about people judging you for your lack of experience, you can relax this time. Everyone has to start somewhere.

You should be eager to learn and serve, loyal to your Dom once the proper connection is there. Planning for long-term, not impulsively jumping in and running away as soon as you're being challenged. Willing to put an effort into your initial message to show me you're serious and want to make a good first impression with your introduction.

Location and time difference are irrelevant to me as long as we have some overlap in our availability, so we can communicate and play on a regular basis.

Me:

I will be your mentor and owner. I enjoy both roles a lot. I enjoy teasing and pushing, but I'm patient and understanding of how difficult it can be to jump into certain kinks. You will have enough time to adjust to everything. I will challenge you, but I won't overwhelm you.

I'm very open-minded in terms of kinks, outside of the obvious limits (such as permanent damage and illegal things), I like to experiment and explore, look for kinks we'd both enjoy. I have my own favorites, but we can discuss that later on in private. I'm strict and demanding, but don't have any unrealistic expectations. I value communication a lot, being open with each other, giving lots of feedback to each other and ensuring we're always on the same page. In terms of style, I'm more of a "rough" Dom, but I have a softer side as well. A lot depends on what you bring out in me.

Outside of kink, I spend most of my free time with reading books. I try to be active physically, fitness and health are important to me and I will encourage you to have a healthy lifestyle as well. You can benefit from being my sub greatly if you're looking for extra motivation to improve yourself.

I'm excited to start this journey, but I will patiently wait until I find the right sub. Are you the one?