What’s your thoughts on the concept of erasing gender or gender abolitionism?

Like, the idea such as gender liberation or gender abolitionism. They sound like great and cool ideas to me.

I want all your opinions on this because I know many of you hated gender roles cause gender roles are harmful. Plus, Gender has to be one of the most stupid and oppressive concept in human history.

After detransition I had awaken to so many things, the biggest one has to be me being a gender nonconformist, in the sense that I am very homosexual, I like to have sex with woman and marry a woman, and my energy or personality is traditionally more masculine leaning. All my life I do not fit in with girls, AND NEVER WILL because of my queerness. Or my gender expression and personality itself is a huge misfit, I dress like a woman, I dress sexily and mainly wear skirt, YET! I do not act like a woman I am very rebellious and is more of a “tomboy” , but overall, thing is I liked dressing in all pink and sparkle yet do fighting and martial arts, like, am I weird ? I know this is a dumb question, yet it is this type of contradiction of my gender expression and personality had made me realize more and more than gender is nothing but oppressive boxes and is sexist and harmful.

Detransition had made me a huge human’s right activist more than ever (and no it doesn’t make me more right leaning or more conservative like mainstream detransitioners are), after detransition I had become more progressive, because I am what you’ll called a “contradiction” or “non traditional domineering masculine woman”. It also had made me more curious in general I become more interested in gender more than ever and the history of gender.

Also I know I use stereotypes to describe myself a lot, BUT THAT IS MY POINT, if gender is so offensive why not just get rid of it? I was thinking about an utopia in which gender doesn’t exist at all. Thoughts?