Hello Ladies,

As we roll into spring… everything is in bloom, the sun is shining, and I find myself craving that connection we all seem to be searching for when we end up here.

TLDR: I’m looking for my person. Someone who wants to be all in on creating a space where we can be our authentic selves without holding back. We already place enough filters on ourselves in our daily lives and relationships. I want to adore you for who you are, and for you to adore me for who I am. A space built on curiosity, support, and encouragement.

A Little About Me

Who I Am
46, married for 19 years, navigating a dead bedroom situation due to a medical condition. I miss the playful energy, the flirting, the feeling of being wanted… and giving that right back.

Family and Furry Friends
Proud dad to an adult son. Dog dad to a 9-year-old lab mix who is my world. I recently said goodbye to my 14-year-old German Shepherd, which reminded me just how deeply animals can impact your heart. We also have a cat that basically adopted us… as they do.

What I Do
Retired Air Force after 20 years. Now I work as a corporate leadership trainer and run a small business.

Who I Am, Personally
Emotionally aware, thoughtful, kind, and highly attentive. I’m easy to talk to and genuinely curious about people. I remember the little things you share… and might use them later to make you smile.

I’m a big fan of Dolly Parton, Fred Rogers, and Ted Lasso, so that probably tells you a lot about my moral compass. I try to put a little more kindness into the world every day.

Affection & Connection
Words of affirmation and physical touch are my strong suits. I enjoy thoughtful messages, random check-ins, shared laughter, and that natural closeness that builds when two people genuinely enjoy each other.

Mental Health Matters
I manage anxiety and depression well. I believe in honesty, self-awareness, and showing up in a steady, grounded way.

Communication
I enjoy staying connected throughout the day—messages, voice notes, and the occasional “this made me think of you.” I respect busy lives, but I value consistency.

The Physical Stuff
6’2”, blue eyes, salt-and-pepper blonde hair, tattoos, a well-hidden body piercing, and a solid dad bod. I stay active and love good food.

Hobbies & Such
I enjoy reading and getting lost in a great story. I have a few favorite TV shows I follow. I'm a big foodie and love trying new things. I love to travel and have my next 4 vacations already planned and booked. My biggest hobby is christmas lights (think great christmas light fight). I'm a big DIY'er and always have some project going on. I also love to golf, hike, and enjoy the outdoors.

What I’m Looking For

A Similar Situation
Married or attached, not looking to change your life—just add something meaningful that’s been missing.

A Real Connection
I want something that builds. A little tension, a little laughter, and a lot of “why am I smiling at my phone right now?”

Playful + Thoughtful
You’re kind, witty, maybe a little flirty. You enjoy banter but can also go deeper when the moment calls for it.

Emotionally Mature
You communicate well, are self-aware, and want something consistent and mutual.

Affection Matters
You enjoy attention, feeling wanted, and being pursued a little. Bonus points if you enjoy making someone feel the same.

Attraction
All body types and backgrounds are welcome. Confidence, warmth, and personality go a long way with me.

Intimacy
Yes, I want that side of things too—but I prefer it to grow naturally from connection and comfort. I’m open-minded and kink-friendly, but I don’t rush it. The buildup is half the fun.

Bonus Points If You…

• Love animals
• Enjoy reading or getting lost in a good story
• Have a nerdy side (Star Wars, Harry Potter, Lord of the Rings, Marvel, DC, etc.)
• Have a great sense of humor
• Appreciate a wide range of music
• Enjoy traveling
• Are learning another language

If I sound like your cup of tea, I’d love to hear from you.

Your move 😊