I, 17f, have been having some issues with my long distance boyfriend, 19m, and idk if its worth it anymore.

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so my bf and i have been dating for almost 3 years now. he lives abroad now but I've been feeling a lot of disconnect. see that I can get through but the real issue is that I feel like its a one side relationship where im doing all the work. I constantly have to beg him to compliment me and he never does. I send him normal selfie all the time but he never sends any. we all have our bad days but you cant even send one Pic? like come on. moreover, he never really listens to what I say. whenever I explain the things im not happy about he never follows through with them. for example, i told him that he doesnt compliment me and id appreciate if you did. he said okay fs fs im sorry but then he only does for a couple of days and then stops. and this has happened multiple times. also he never calls me. im always the one initiating. this one doesnt bother me as much bcs we do have a 12 hr time difference. i just wish he'd change. and when he says he will I want to believe him. I just dont know if I can anymore.

Posted Apr 1, 2026, 8:38 PM UTC

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