Out of Love

I am trying to build something good, but every experience I have with my spouse is negative. The first thing she says to me constantly is negative, from waking up to walking in the door from work. I really cannot stand to be around her, and I am wondering if most people can’t stand her. We don’t have any friends anymore. When she starts talking she doesn’t stop, and a lot of it is calling out other people and how she doesn’t get what she wants. I pretty much avoid her at all costs. We have plenty of money, resources, health- I really am thinking of calling it quits.

I am trying to find ways to love her but she repulses me with her negativity.

If you have any ideas for me, please let me know.

Tl;dr longish marriage, no longer able to tolerate my wife, need help