Dating app in japan

im 30yo M in Japan.Yesterday I met a single mother in dating app and she said she wanted to meet me at my home for one night sharing desires.But I've decided to meet at hotel cuz my apartment was sharing with my work partners.Unm I've no dating experience in Japan as a southeast Asia guy.I've only recently arrived in Japan, so I don't know much about Japanese culture.Is that safe? yap I am not experienced enough for that..so I came to reddit..pls some advice.