I 23 (m) lost my V in legal Brothel

I have seen alot of this posts on a sub. I feel like people overreact too much like its the end of their life, they ruined their life. Like me you were just a young horny guy who could curious thats about it.. You didn't design yourself, this is just how humans are they have been fcking for centuries. Honestly for me i am glad i got it over with because p*rn has built up my mind like it was some sort of magical fantancy where dophamins will be flowing in your brain with a single touch, i was always thinking and dreaming about this every day it was really messing with my brain. I didn't really crave relationship just sex. My mind is now at ease knowing that it is a massive disappointment compared to my expectations. The women i was with was older like 27 she definitely knew what she was doing, it was a really awkward experience for me i didn't know what to do i finished before she even could really get started, i could tell she was trying her best to make it seem like she was enjoying it. But it least the next time once i get a partner i will definitely know what to do now and learn my mistakes it will be less awkward experience and i will make sure she has a good experience. In terms of region i also see people feel massive regret like they have committed big sin. i am somewhat religious myself but there are bigger concerns in the world such as rape, murder . Even now as i am writing this comment missiles are being dropped at innocent people in middle east which is why compared to those things this is not really a sin.