:/

it’s been almost three weeks of no contact with him. it’s not a bad thing but i still feel some type of way about it. he initially showed a lot of interest. flirting, complimenting me, talking about future plans, and being affectionate during and after i slept over, saying he wanted to get to know me and asking me to come back. i’ve known him for years and we have a lot of mutual friends so i thought i could trust him. he was my first kiss, first everything. i found out he bragged about sleeping with me and taking my virginity, then ghosted me and ignored me in public. i ended up sleeping over at his house again (dumb, i know), but then found out from my friend that his ex was at his house the day after. it turns out they were back together. a couple days later he texted me asking to make sure i took a plan b. i messaged his girlfriend, shared proof, and he reacted very angrily (not surprising) blaming me for ruining his relationship, denying any wrongdoing, and telling me not to speak to him again. his girlfriend thanked me multiple times and wasn’t mean to me. even though he’s not someone who would’ve been a good partner, i still am a little sad because i was attached to him. it’s getting better with time though. i got a lot of backlash from him and his friends for telling his girlfriend but i know i did the right thing. if my boyfriend was sleeping with another woman i’d want to know.