Change in focus

So i posted earlier about how I seem to get rejected alot.

I spent time talking with my mum. She's my rock and held my hand every step of my transition.

She gave my the biggest advice of "Just dont look for a man I spent 10 years single before I met (redacted). Just focus on what's important you have a great job and are looking at a massive promotion, youre beautiful like model stunning these men just want you off face value and when they realise they aren't enough for you that is why they pull away. Focus on your transition as I know you want FFS and GRS and you unfortunately have to self fund that so my advice is focus on you and your goals and there will eventually be a man who loves you"

so ive shifted my views. I am gonna focus on my job as frankly I make good money. Ive cleared all debts and Im saving the 80k in New Zealand dollars I need to have ffs and grs in Thailand before I then save up another 80k for the downpayment on a home.

and so be it if im single for 10 years in the process.