28 [M4F] Philly/NJ/Delaware/nearby areas- Human teddy bear seeks his forever holder.

M4F Delaware

Local HIGHLY preferred!

Good morning/afternoon/evening/whenever this post may find you, and may it find you well! I'm a pretty standard young man looking for a young lady to spend the rest of my days with. I've known that I've wanted this since I was a young kid and over 20 years later I'm still after it! I know these things can be a chore to read through so I'm quickly gonna go through who I am and who I hope you are! I tried to break this post up into easy to read lists as best I could without leaving out important info so it's not just a wall of text. In the interest of both your time and my own, I kindly ask that you read the post carefully in case you see anything that could a dealbreaker for either of us. With that out of the way...

About me:

  • Born and raised in the suburbs about 45 minutes outside the city of Philly. This place will always be home to me, but I've decided that I don't want it to be home forever. Barring any drastic changes, I would like to relocate elsewhere within the US, ideally to a colder climate (I've had Minnesota circled for a while now but I'm open to other ideas!). I have no problem staying in the general area either, just need to get out of my hometown.
  • Physically, I stand at around 6'1-6'2, 285 pounds. I know that may sound bad, but I have a big frame and it fits me quite nicely! Think bigger NFL player (O-line, tight end, etc). I've got broad shoulders and a nice chest, perfect for use as a pillow during cuddles! I've also got a lot of body hair so hopefully you're cool with that! I have short brown hair that's thick and fluffy, and tend to keep my face clean shaven.
  • My hobbies are the typical nerdy stuff, video games (PC & Switch 2, ask me about my animal crossing island!), legos, collecting plushes, and adding to my ever expanding pajama drawer! I'm always down to get into new things though! Also a big Philly sports fan (I promise we're not as crazy as the internet makes us seem!).
  • I'm generally more on the shy and reserved side, but once I open up I can be a yapper. Communication is super important to me, both for relationships and life in general, be that talking about an issue that needs to be resolved or just random things. I also love just talking while cuddling, being either the talker or the listener if one of us is yapping.
  • I currently work part/full time at a grocery store. It's not my favorite thing in the world but I've been there a while and figure just stick to what I know. I'm currently also enrolled as a student at my local community college going for an associate's degree in business! While both of these pursuits keep me quite busy, I have no issue making time as needed.
  • As far as physical intimacy goes, I'd say that I'm extremely affectionate. Absolutely love to give hugs and kissing just makes me feel complete in a way that nothing else really does. Also just generally love all kinds of physical touch! (We can discuss bedroom stuff if we click!)
  • I'm an open book, so if there's something here you haven't seen that you're curious about, feel free to ask!

As for you, you are

  • 25-33. Not budging on this range by more than a year. The closer to 28 the better!
  • Childfree (this means you neither have NOR want children. This is non-negotiable.)
  • Want to find someone to spend forever with (marriage preferred)
  • monogamous
  • Cis AFAB woman. Very sorry to my AFAB enbies and trans girlies (and AMAB enbies and trans guys for that matter), love ya, I will always be an ally in the fight to be who you are without fear but y'all are just not for me romantically speaking.)
  • close enough to whereabouts I'm at so we can see each other regularly
  • NOT a cigarette smoker!

And that's all I've got! I'm happy to exchange pics once the conversation gets rolling a bit and there's some chemistry. I hope to hear from you soon! Please include the following info in your intro message:

  • First name
  • Age
  • A brief intro of yourself/what about my post stood out to you that made you reach out
  • What state you live in

If you're not sure what to say in your first message, here are a few conversation starters/hot takes I hold:

  1. blue cheese > ranch and it's not particularly close
  2. coffee is nasty
  3. What's the nicest thing someone else has ever said about you?
  4. Would you rather live in 24 hours of daylight or darkness?

Posted Apr 2, 2026, 10:41 PM UTC · locked

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