28 [M4F] Philly/NJ/Delaware/nearby areas- Human teddy bear seeks his forever holder.
Local HIGHLY preferred!
Good morning/afternoon/evening/whenever this post may find you, and may it find you well! I'm a pretty standard young man looking for a young lady to spend the rest of my days with. I've known that I've wanted this since I was a young kid and over 20 years later I'm still after it! I know these things can be a chore to read through so I'm quickly gonna go through who I am and who I hope you are! I tried to break this post up into easy to read lists as best I could without leaving out important info so it's not just a wall of text. In the interest of both your time and my own, I kindly ask that you read the post carefully in case you see anything that could a dealbreaker for either of us. With that out of the way...
About me:
- Born and raised in the suburbs about 45 minutes outside the city of Philly. This place will always be home to me, but I've decided that I don't want it to be home forever. Barring any drastic changes, I would like to relocate elsewhere within the US, ideally to a colder climate (I've had Minnesota circled for a while now but I'm open to other ideas!). I have no problem staying in the general area either, just need to get out of my hometown.
- Physically, I stand at around 6'1-6'2, 285 pounds. I know that may sound bad, but I have a big frame and it fits me quite nicely! Think bigger NFL player (O-line, tight end, etc). I've got broad shoulders and a nice chest, perfect for use as a pillow during cuddles! I've also got a lot of body hair so hopefully you're cool with that! I have short brown hair that's thick and fluffy, and tend to keep my face clean shaven.
- My hobbies are the typical nerdy stuff, video games (PC & Switch 2, ask me about my animal crossing island!), legos, collecting plushes, and adding to my ever expanding pajama drawer! I'm always down to get into new things though! Also a big Philly sports fan (I promise we're not as crazy as the internet makes us seem!).
- I'm generally more on the shy and reserved side, but once I open up I can be a yapper. Communication is super important to me, both for relationships and life in general, be that talking about an issue that needs to be resolved or just random things. I also love just talking while cuddling, being either the talker or the listener if one of us is yapping.
- I currently work part/full time at a grocery store. It's not my favorite thing in the world but I've been there a while and figure just stick to what I know. I'm currently also enrolled as a student at my local community college going for an associate's degree in business! While both of these pursuits keep me quite busy, I have no issue making time as needed.
- As far as physical intimacy goes, I'd say that I'm extremely affectionate. Absolutely love to give hugs and kissing just makes me feel complete in a way that nothing else really does. Also just generally love all kinds of physical touch! (We can discuss bedroom stuff if we click!)
- I'm an open book, so if there's something here you haven't seen that you're curious about, feel free to ask!
As for you, you are
- 25-33. Not budging on this range by more than a year. The closer to 28 the better!
- Childfree (this means you neither have NOR want children. This is non-negotiable.)
- Want to find someone to spend forever with (marriage preferred)
- monogamous
- Cis AFAB woman. Very sorry to my AFAB enbies and trans girlies (and AMAB enbies and trans guys for that matter), love ya, I will always be an ally in the fight to be who you are without fear but y'all are just not for me romantically speaking.)
- close enough to whereabouts I'm at so we can see each other regularly
- NOT a cigarette smoker!
And that's all I've got! I'm happy to exchange pics once the conversation gets rolling a bit and there's some chemistry. I hope to hear from you soon! Please include the following info in your intro message:
- First name
- Age
- A brief intro of yourself/what about my post stood out to you that made you reach out
- What state you live in
If you're not sure what to say in your first message, here are a few conversation starters/hot takes I hold:
- blue cheese > ranch and it's not particularly close
- coffee is nasty
- What's the nicest thing someone else has ever said about you?
- Would you rather live in 24 hours of daylight or darkness?
Posted Apr 2, 2026, 10:41 PM UTC · locked