22[M4F] #Dorset - Wanting to try subbing

NSFWM4F

Im Ben, 22, and I live in the Dorset area. I'm looking to explore subbing for the right domme. As my girlfriend and I originally experimented with this dynamic, but it is not something she feels comfortable continuing with. As such, we have decided it would be good for me to explore this with another trusted person (casually) while also continuing my relationship with her.

Outside of this lifestyle, I enjoy reading (reading Mistborn book 2 and working through an extensive TBR), playing video games (both single and multilayer games - currently replaying Horizon Forbidden West and have picked up overwatch again) and playing magic the gathering. I love all sorts of animals especially cats and dogs, with my best friend being an excitable beagle who's really just after treats (of who I have many photos as he sadly lives with my parents).

im a 5'8"(?) With an altheletic build who's going back to gym in the next week or so, with curly mousy brown hair and green eyes. I work full time starting early in the morning which leaves me with my evenings open for getting to know others and time for other things...

As for likes in the bedroom, I enjoy Edging, overstim, bondage, collar/ leash, Choking, Sensory Deprivation (Gag, Blindfold etc), spanking, toys, ass play, sucking. I enjoy anal with toys but would love to get into pegging. Im submissive, into Free use and will beg for what I want. Im also an experimentalist (after many conversations regarding boundaries). Conversations regarding boundaries and hard limits are integral and id rather have this conversation one on one rather than listing them all here.

If you are interested or there's anything else you'd like to know before you consider drop me a message!

Posted Apr 2, 2026, 10:42 PM UTC · locked

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