41 [M4F] Is finding a best friend with benefits even possible?

I'm a pretty simple guy - I go to work (yes I go into the office 5 days a week), I come home, cook dinner, and then have the rest of the night to do my own thing while the wife does her own thing. A few nights a week I hit the gym as I continue a pretty epic weight loss journey, but as I mentioned, it's a work in progress.

I have very open availability for a partner, as I can text all day/night/weekends. I'm ideally looking for someone who can offer the same, within reason. I'm not looking for a day-time only affair or someone to have fun with while their spouse is in the office.

I want someone that I can talk to every day, really get to know, and develop a friendship and a relationship with. Whether that's strictly platonic or not, I'm open to either - but if I had to say what I really want, it's somewhere between a best friend with benefits and the love of my life.

I would prefer you're not in PST (I'm CST and the 2-hour time difference can be a bit much), but my only hard requirements are that you use either Discord or Telegram and be available to talk outside of working hours.