Just a voyeur — I love to watch, but never participate.

For me, the turn-on is 100% in the observation. I have no desire to join in, be touched, or even be noticed. I just love being a "fly on the wall" and witnessing the raw intimacy and chemistry between a couple.

There’s something about the "silent witness" aspect that is way more intense than actually participating.

Does anyone else feel the same way? How do you usually describe this to others?