35 [M4F] #St Louis/IL/US – Questionably Amazing Dom/Daddy Looking For Happily Ever After

Truly an inspiring and witty title, I know. Hopefully it gets the point across that I’m not really interested in something short term, I’m not obsessed with titles, and I don’t really care where you are as long as you aren’t overly attached to where you are.

I’d wanted to err on the side of brevity instead of writing a bunch of overly loquacious nonsense about my perfect partner, my dream relationship, and what a mind bogglingly amazing catch I am. Unfortunately, it seems to be the unavoidable nature of writing an ad. – I don’t want to make myself sound too good to be true or overly full of it, but I also don’t want to undersell myself, and I don’t want either of us to feel like we’re settling. I want this to be our dream relationship, not just mine.

I’m 5’10, have no tattoos or piercings, and am relatively muscular. Borderline on abs, but I’m afraid of overselling. I’m pale, have gray blue eyes, a full head of dark hair, veiny hands/arms, and a deep voice. I lift regularly, and I do both jiu jitsu and MMA recreationally. I’m a good cook (more because I like eating good food than because I like cooking), and I have an obscenely high sex drive. I like animals, video games, weed, bad tv, good food, cuddling, pretty much anything that involves spending time with my partner, and the rest of the usual suspects. I can travel easily, and I have a few road trips I want to go on, but traveling by myself doesn’t sound nearly as fun as doing it with the right person. In case it’s not obvious, I go well with the clingy/obsessive type, although you don’t have to be.

I don’t really want to just have a giant kink list in my post, but I’m very open minded, and I have real life experience with/enjoy DDLG, and most of the more common kinks. I’ve even got experience with some of the less common things like TPE, but none of those are mandatory. The only real deal breaker for me is free use. If you’re not into it, we’re probably not going to be good fits sexually. I’m not submissive in the slightest in or out of the bedroom, but I don’t think I’m a control freak, and I think I respond well to reason. I’m also not a sexual sadist, but I play well with masochists that can communicate what they want/need.

I don’t want to have to choose between great sex and a great relationship, and I’m not honestly convinced you can really have a great relationship without great sex. So, as contradictory as it may sound, I’d love to find someone who can be my companion and partner in addition to my arm candy and Fleshlight.

None of those are really optional. What, if anything, you do for a living is optional. If you want to work, as long as you enjoy what you’re doing and have time for a relationship, I won’t complain. If you would rather just enjoy life together, if we’re good enough fits, that’s probably going to be my preference. I have an amazing life with a laughably great work/life balance, it would be nice to have someone amazing to enjoy it with.

If you think we would be good fits, send me a message with a little bit about yourself, and we’ll go from there.

“A little bit about yourself” can be just that. It doesn’t have to be a resume, it definitely doesn’t need to be War and Peace, but it should at least include how old you are, and what you look like at an absolute bare minimum. What part of the country you’re in wouldn’t hurt either, since that’s usually one of my first questions. It’s amazing how many people I ignore because the absolute bare minimum was still too fucking much for them.