What is love?

when you dont see a person with the label of this nd that...that's love a pure unconditional state....but is it viable for a mind that never went into the matter of the word itself what is a word...we do each nd every "thing" in words yet we never bother.....is this a respons-ible act? then how come you find beyond you never do....nivritti comes first...you peel off not make more word houses....