40 [M4F] #Indiana #EST - Seeking a positive and uplifting connection where we mutually pursue each other’s wants and needs.

It has been almost twenty years now of being in a sexually neglectful marriage. Waiting until you say “I do” to be completely intimate with someone can be a gift or a curse. In my case, it started the path I am on today.

I have read many of the posts on multiple subreddits which deal with affairs, and they range in many varieties. You can feel the frustration of people, either with their marriage directly, or with the posting process. After my little bit of research in what others present in their post, I’m just going to stay true to myself 😊.

I am searching for a woman who is a breath of fresh air with her abundance of energy, creativity, and positive outlook on exploring each other. I am a very kind and comforting person, one who strives to bring joy into the lives of those around me. Even though what I am hoping for is a sexual awakening with someone, being there as a friend and emotional support system is important to me too.

Here are a few ideas of the top of my head:

• Excitedly waking up early each morning to make each other smile, feel alive, and maybe voice chat while I head to work. The intensity of feeling wanted and desired has been missing in my life for far too long.
• Exploring each other’s wants, desires, needs, and fantasies throughout the day. I can be devilishly naughty while at work. I just need to find someone who wants to unleash that side of me. With wearing both a Dad hat and husband hat at home, I’m not able to freely chat consistently at night or on weekends.
• Taking some risk and teasingly pushing me to “run an errand” during the workday to voice chat or video chat with each other. I want to bring an immense amount of excitement to your life where you might have felt lonely, neglected, or unappreciated. I also look forward to being your comfort during your daily routine.
• Being completely open with communication, comfort levels, desires, and what is truly on our minds. The different paths in my life have shown me how important being openly honest with someone is. Even if it is difficult to talk about, being able to be kind to others and express concerns in a positive way is best for both parties.

As for my physical attributes, I am a tall man on the little more to love side. If you enjoy a man with a beard, warm yet intense eyes, a kind smile who is solid, I’m the one for you! I am more interested in your personality and creative energy than you being tight and toned. We both have real lives with stressful responsibilities. I want to worship your body and mind because they are yours and what makes you wonderfully you.