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AITAH about friends communication

My friend and I were due to meet for dinner a couple of months ago, on the day she had a family emergency and had to cancel.

I sent her my wishes and offered to chat with her about it but she said all is OK, and since then I’ve hardly heard from her.

Nothing crazy happened with us, we always have a great time when we hang out, and there was no bad energy between leading up to the day we were going to meet.

Anyways, after being ignored for a while I sent her the messages I’ve just attached, did I approach this wrongly? Could I have gone about it better? She didn’t seem to take it well, and she’s since sent me a 7 min voice message which I’ve been avoiding listening to… I can’t help but feel that this is a bit of an overreaction and I’m left feeling like I need to defend myself for basic needs.

She’s getting married soon, and this seems to be her default answer to things right now.

It would be a shame if this ends our friendship, but I really don’t want to sit and listen to 7 mins of her talking at me for a small message…

These were the texts:

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https://vitreous-indigo-4wpd7btegm.edgeone.app/IMG\_2738.jpeg

Posted Apr 3, 2026, 4:43 PM UTC · locked

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