What does god have planned for us ?

I’m not sure what I’m looking for at this point but maybe I can get some insight/advice both from a logical standpoint and faith standpoint. To offer a glimpse of my situation My wife and I are high sweet hearts pretty much have been together half our lives I’m currently 32 she’s 31. We did everything right up until this point bought a home at a young age got married and decided to have 2 beautiful children. Our marriage began to crack once the children came into the picture which seems to common in most relationships regardless of being married or not. Relatively close to when we had our first kid, we decided to allow her mom to move in with us since she was going through a divorce of her own it’s been 4 years since. My wife decided back in November of 2025 that she was done and wanted a divorce, didn’t want to do marriage counseling , loves me but not in love with me. From her point I think we both felt the same unseen, unheard I felt like I loved her more than I love myself. The sex has always been there so that wasn’t the case with our relationship but I guess we were co-existing which I didn’t realize considering I was the working to provide while she was a stay home mom. I still want my marriage even if it’s means to go through hell and unhappiness to be with my wife. The one thing that’s keep us together is the financial situation even selling the house doesn’t help considering we don’t have much equity so it’s smarter to keep the home because of the debt we have. It will be multiple years until we’re actual stable and for her I guess to save up to get her own spot. I believe god has a plan and there’s a reason I’m actually hoping for a miracle but at this point I have to let go and honestly leave it in gods hands. Im open to hearing different point of views and some advice that I haven’t heard so far.