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I’ve been going to the gym for a few weeks and keep making eye contact with this guy (a little older than me). Sometimes we hold it for a few seconds and he’s even half-smiled, but I get nervous and look away.. of course. I know I probably should’ve smiled back, but now I’m thinking about just approaching him and asking him out. I’ve never approached a guy before, so I’m not sure what’s normal.
Is it socially acceptable to do that at the gym? And is it weird to just open by asking if he’s single? He could be admiring and enjoying his workout and that’s all.
Posted Apr 3, 2026, 4:48 PM UTC
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