25 [M4F] Chicago Attempting to overcome my embarrassing premature ejaculation
Ever been with a guy who in the middle of foreplay or during the beginning moments of sex when he suddenly loses control and ejaculates unexpectedly?
That would unfortunately be me in most situations. Since some of my first sexual experiences, I have struggled to hold in my orgasm and subsequently have become known a a quick cummer. I typically haven't talked about this at length, especially not in person, but I'm hoping to open up a bit more about this issue.
While I seem macho or manly on the exterior, that quickly goes away once a girl realizes how quick I am. The reactions have ranged from surprised to laughing to disappointment. Some have claimed they enjoy it while others are impressed anyone could finish that quickly.
So I am hoping to chat a bit more about this issue and open up about my experiences. Id love to hear from woman who have experienced this or not. Id be happy to hear about your stories as well. Hit me up with asl and let's chat a bit!
Posted Apr 3, 2026, 4:51 PM UTC · locked