Ladies, as long as the guy's apartment is clean, does it matter if it has no style or decorations? How big of a red flag is that?
Man, dating is so exhausting from the standpoint of all the billions of things that you have to think about....
As a guy, you have to think about your car and your apartment/house. You want your car to be clean, inside and out, when picking somebody up for a date, or even meeting them somewhere.
When they come back to your place, ideally your place would be very clean (especially the bathroom), but it'd also be cool if your place had a certain charm or style to it. Some sort of decorations and stuff, so it doesn't just look like a boring 4 walls with a sofa and a TV.
My problem is, my apartment is the boring one with not much furniture, and basically no interior design of any kind, no decorations, just very ho hum.
At least I make sure both my kitchen and bathroom are very clean, and the rest of the apartment is clean. Vacuumed, some dusting, clean sheets.
But I feel like as soon as a woman steps into my place, she's going to be disappointed, because she probably has this idea in her head of the perfect pad for a guy, and mine is nothing like what they're dreaming about
Posted Apr 3, 2026, 4:51 PM UTC