Feabie girls take ages to reply

i know this might be deleted since its not that feedism related. but is it just me problem or does anyone else have problems that women take ages to reply to your conversation , like if i manage to get their attentiom or when they reply to my initial message , which is rare too , and iam not even being a creep or anything , iam trying to be nice and kind , but they answer so i amswer them back then like at best dont hear from them in 3 days , sometimes i have to remind myself that i exist but them they answer saying they are busy and dont reply for another 3 days or more , like i get that people are busy , but it takes not a minute to reply , even a message a day is better or something , so then there is a question why create a app for chating and getting to know people if iam too busy to answer , and i wouldnt have a problem if its just one girl , but a lot of them do this ,or is there a problem in me , idk , and like i said its not feedism related but i needeed to vent