What action or words finally broke the curse and made you see them for who they are?

Something in me finally snapped two days ago. A small disagreement turned into the usual name calling, mocking and belittling. Lets see, Im a retard. Im A bitch. A cunt. Idiot. A child. I have nothing. I dont make enough money. Ill never make a relationship work with anyone. He started threatening divorce... this is all because I asked if when he made plans that he ask me about it since we live together. He tried his best to get me to react. That is always fun. He did the, "lets take out my phone so I can record you being crazy". I found a new way to stop that real quick. when he starts recording I immediately ask him to repeat each name hes called me so far. He stops filming before he even answers that one.

The icing on the cake though... I told him it hurts when he threatens divorce each time we have a disagreement. I told him if he keeps threatening it, lets just get it over with. His response: "well maybe it's time for me to get my dick to work (he has ed) so I can finally fuck other bitches (his words, I dont call women derogatory names). Maybe the lack of animosity will actually get me hard". I dont know what he was trying to gain from that, but after he said that, i am working now toward divorce. End of story. I haven't made eye contact with him since. He is disgusting. He's made me feel disgusting. I feel as if a curse has been broken...

What broke your curse? what action? what phrase?