I feel very boring and uninteresting as a person
I'm 20 years old man, and so far everything seems to be going good. I really love God and commit good amount of time into spending time with him in many ways. He helped me to get my life together and just simply changed me for a much better person than I used to be. The problem is, I just don't feel like an interesting person to be around. I tell others about my faith etc. but me myself - I feel kinda like a person who was never really supposed to exist. I am glad that I do, since I can help others and spread love of God, but I just mostly don't find myself all that important. And I know it shouldn't bother me, since faith requires a lot of effort and commitment into God, but there is one important dream of mine - getting married and starting a family. Of course my wife has to he a christian so that we could raise our children in faith. But how am I supposed to for example make a good impression if I'm not really that interesting? And I'm not saying that I cannot talk freely with girls - I can, but not in a way of finding someone willing to spent the rest of my life with me. I wouldn't say that I'm an introvert. I used to be, now I'm kinda in the middle. I guess I should stop thinking about it and just give it all to God like I always do and trust his timing. Is that a good idea?
Posted Apr 3, 2026, 4:55 PM UTC