Asia issue of duos into trios 24/7

I know the game isn't supposed to swing extremely into either sides of the passive/aggressive spectrum. I'm fine with fighting other raiders, if anything I welcome the fight as I know I can take the fights easily.

The issue here is, my Wife can't. She physically can't function in a fight, she can't knock raiders down, throw utility, etc. I can't blame her since she can't fight other raiders at all.

In Asia, with the lower population and decreasing playerbase, now we're constantly matching into trios and those trios will ALWAYS hunt us down since they know we're duos.

How am I supposed to constantly 1v3? I can do it sometimes with enough planning/luck, but EVERY fight?

Please stop matching my poor sod of a wife into 2v3s, thanks.