AITAH my friend blocked me everywhere

Throwaway for obvious reasons.

I (27F) got blocked by my friend (30F) on every single platform and I want to know if I’m the asshole.

Last year, my friend invited me over to go grocery shopping and afterwards we’d cook dinner together. I showed up at her place an hour late without letting her know. I got caught up in some personal things and explained once I arrived. When I was at her place, I placed two bottles of wine in her fridge without asking (put it on top of her produce which she said is bad bc damaged produce goes bad faster which is utter bs), I used the main bathroom’s toilet instead of the guest bathroom, I sat crisscross applesauce on her couch with my shoes on (at which she got so angry you’d think I’d slapped her pet, like it’s just shoes on a couch what’s the big deal), and I tried to convince her to order takeout instead. She got upset over this and said she didn’t have money for takeout (she is currently unemployed). We eventually went to the supermarket as I was unsuccessful in convincing her to order takeout. At the supermarket I changed my mind about cooking together and wanted to get airfryer fries instead. She does not like airfryer fries but I was the guest so I decide. We split the grocery cost 40% for me and 60% for her, since I was the guest I got the benefit. Then back at her place, she got the airfryer and turned it on. I said she could put the fries in there right away. She replied “no? When the light turns off it’s at the right temp, it’s still heating up” which is complete bullshit. Anyway we had dinner. She had half a plate of fries, I had three plates of fries. She turned the airfryer off after making the fries and went to the bathroom after dinner. While she was in the bathroom, I turned the airfryer back on because I wasn’t done eating yet. When she came back from the bathroom, she asked if I could leave soon since it was getting late (it was 9pm by that point) and she wanted to go to bed soon. I asked what time she wanted to sleep and she replied slightly annoyed “can you just leave soon? I’m tired and have hit my max of being around people for the day” (she’s AuDHD). I once again asked what time she wanted to sleep and she said 10pm. I asked if she wanted to be asleep at 10 or just in bed by then. She, again, asked if I could just leave soon since she was tired. I managed to stretch it to 10.15pm before I left. When I saw the time, I looked at her and laughed and said “now I still left later than what you wanted” and she looked upset. As if 15 minutes matter that much.

We did not have much contact in the meantime.

Then at the end of last year, it was her 30th birthday. It completely slipped my mind. Which I think can happen. She sent me a message saying I forgot her birthday and I replied “omg I’m literally the worst person on this planet” and she said “you aren’t but it still hurt”. I acknowledged what I did was wrong, why was she still bitching about it?

Then this year she took me to a concert as birthday gift to me. Before the concert, I wanted to drink. My friend didn’t want to drink. I ordered a mocktail for her and a cocktail for myself. I took a sip of the cocktail and didn’t taste any alcohol. I asked her if she could take a sip from my drink. She replied “I am not allowed to drink with the medication I’m on. If you truly think there’s no alcohol in it, go back to the bar and ask for it to be remade.” I kept asking her to please take a sip, I mean it’s embarrassing to go back to the bar and ask, what if they think I’m an alcoholic? She eventually took a small sip and immediately started coughing and turned red. She said that there’s definitely alcohol in my cocktail. So dramatic.

At the concert, she went to the toilet. I decided I liked her seat better and sat there. She came back and looked disappointed at me sitting in her seat but didn’t say anything thankfully. After the concert I wanted to try to skip the line of people wanting to leave the venue and she said she didn’t want to do that, which made me angry.

After the concert, in the car, I lost my phone. I used her phone to call mine, but since she had CarPlay turned on, the screen switched from Google Maps to the phone call, causing her to miss the exit. She has an electric car and had only enough battery left to bring me home and then hopefully drive herself home. I don’t get how that’s my fault, as she was driving and should’ve paid more attention. In the car, I asked her if she could attend something important to me. She said yes and asked if I could text her the date. I forgot to do so.

Then last week, she suddenly texted me that she finds my behavior disrespectful because I often don’t reply to her. I told her it was disrespectful of her to not attend the important thing I asked her to attend. She replied that this is exactly what she means and that she’s done with the whataboutism and with me and then proceeded to block me everywhere. Literally everywhere. I have no way of contacting her right now.

I feel like she’s being very disrespectful. She should unblock me and apologize for her behavior.

So, Reddit, AITAH?