42(M4F) #ny #wny - let's decide to choose each other everyday

Hello ladies.

I am a 42m divorced with two younger kids seeking a woman for married and extending our family if the universe allows.

I'm a professional, an entrepreneur, a builder by nature. I'm a protector - my 20 years in the army will confirm that. I'm stoic, extremely intelligent, introverted homebody, who's also creative and a slight bad boy.

Tattoos, motorcycles, and a few guns. But I'm also emotionally available and present, genuine, warm and caring for the people who matter. I'm the dad who sticks out at school functions, I'm the one they all whisper about because they don't have a clue who I am. I'm also the dad who helped design and build the playground for the school and built the class volcano project.

I'm a good dad and very present for my children in every way possible.

As a husband I'm calm and even, firm and stand my ground. I make decisions quickly and with as much information is available at the time. I work hard and it's solely for the benefit of my family living a comfortable life.

I'm complex not complicated.

You: 18+ - age is just a number if the maturity and personality are a match. Smart, fun, feminine, and creative. I need someone who can crunch numbers as much as be my muse. I don't need a servant but I need a partner who will divide and conquer with me. If I'm out making money for the family, I would def ask for more of your efforts being taking care of house and kids.

Not here for friends. I want actual connections ready to move forward. Happy to exchange pics and numbers early on. Please also be willing.