Should I wish my SP (ex) on his birthday or just ignore it?

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Okay I’m genuinely confused and need advice 😭

My SP is my ex. The last time we broke up, I was manifesting him back. On my birthday, he didn’t come but he did wish me—and then about a month later, he came back.

Now we’re not together again, and I’ve started manifesting him again. The thing is, his birthday is coming up and I don’t know what to do.

Part of me feels like I should just stay detached and not reach out. But at the same time, I know his personality… if I don’t wish him, he might get into his ego and take it the wrong way.

I don’t want to act desperate, but I also don’t want to create unnecessary distance.

So yeah—should I wish him or just let it be? Especially from a manifestation point of view?