29 [M4F] #Netherlands

Hi, I’m Vincent, 29, 1.88m, fit, dark hair, blue eyes.

Friends describe me as a “big teddy bear” but there’s more to me than that. I’m grounded, confident, and I know what I want. I run my own sustainability-focused company and live in The Hague. My life is structured, stable, and in control and I bring that same energy into my dynamics.

Outside of work, I enjoy writing, hiking, traveling, and quiet nights with music, books, or my PlayStation.

What I’m looking for is a woman who feels drawn to a dominant presence someone who enjoys giving up control in a safe, respectful, and intentional way.

For me, being dominant isn’t about ego or force. It’s about responsibility. It’s about creating a space where you can let go, trust deeply, and feel guided. I value clear communication, enthusiastic consent, and strong boundaries yours and mine. Control only works when it’s given freely.

I enjoy taking the lead, setting structure, and building a dynamic where you feel both challenged and cared for. There’s a balance between firmness and warmth I expect respect, but I give it just as strongly in return.

This doesn’t have to be rushed or purely physical. I prefer building connection first understanding each other, establishing trust, and seeing where the dynamic naturally develops.

If you’re someone who craves guidance, enjoys a dominant partner, and values both intensity and emotional safety, we’ll likely get along.

Send me a DM and tell me a bit about yourself.

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