To some extent sex and relationships seem pointless later in life?

For the most part I dont really think about the fact im alone or let it bother me.

But Im on my period and my 28th birthday is soon so it got me thinking about stuff.

Anyway. I have thought this before, but later in life (my age and up) sex relationships dont seem to have much real chance of value or benefit over the cons?

For the most part everyone gets less and less attractive over time. Men start to have less stamina/ability/etc and ED over time. People in my area at my age mostly already have children, so I would never be their first priority or loved the most. A lot of men do not care about womens pleasure at all, and a lot of people in general are just not amazing at sex.

A lot of people get boring after their 20s (respectfully, there's nothing wrong with that) or get consumed by having children (also nothing wrong with that). But that just doesnt fit my lifestyle and I have nothing in common with them. I want to travel and try new things. I dont have kids so I actually have hobbies and stuff I like to do.

Most normal people spend the majority of their time working or doing neccesary things like chores, errands, etc.. So not a ton a ton of time for it all anyway. Then theres the fact that youre more sure of yourself and value peace as an adult. So both yourself and others are not interested at the slightest sign of silliness.

So ultimately, why risk getting an STD or getting pregnant for a man that might cum after 3 pumps and then leave you hanging? Why go out of your way for someone thats never going to have the time and love for you due to their kids, doesnt have the same interests, that you are just another person to, etc?

Its not like I really had a chance or choice to begin with but maybe in the end it doesnt matter anyway because its not worth it.